Why Do Men Stay Single? The Top 25 Reasons (and Unfiltered Truth)

What is the number one reason guys give for being single? Believe it or not, it's that they're not good looking enough.

When asked "Guys, why are you single?" the responses are many and varied. And as men don't always like to open up about this kind of stuff - at least to one another - we thought that we should provide a summary of the key reasons.

So why do men stay single? Here are the raw, unfiltered and unashamedly honest answers that a wide cross-section of men gave to this one burning question, according to Reddit.

1. Unattractiveness (especially baldness and height)

Hundreds of guys feel their looks simply aren't good enough to attract a partner. But so what if you're not exactly Tom Hardy? It's been proven time and time again that a good personality is the most desirable trait in a romantic partner. Don't let this hold you back!

2. Shyness/Low self-esteem

Not everyone can walk into a room with all guns blazing - it's how you feel that counts. and there's good news - Ladies actually love men who are slightly less brash when it comes to dating. So try not to let a lack of confidence stop you from getting started.

3. Can't be bothered

C'mon guys, really? We didn't want to believe this one, but sadly it's true! Sure, not forcing a relationship definitely isn't a bad thing - but - by not putting yourself out there, your lack of effort could be interpreted as being closed-off and unapproachable. More importantly, your soulmate may be waiting for you. You really have everything to gain.

4. Not interested in relationships

Of course, many users said they were single by choice. Lots of people think flying solo is a bad thing, but this is an assumption which is often made incorrectly. Also, people do change their minds about relationships, commitment and children as they get older.