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Why Alpha Male Dominance Is So Attractive: Exploring the Science Behind the Charisma

With the subtle strings of human attraction at work, the dominant alpha males appear to emerge looking very macho, interesting, and thrilling. So, what exactly is it about these guys that makes them so attractive? Let's probe into the fascinating dynamics of alpha male attraction and dominance.

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Why Are Alpha Males So Attractive?

Why Are Alpha Males So Attractive?


As one that has literally spent 'years' on dating apps, this one really resonates with me.  In fact, I have even been described as an "alpha female" myself on the odd occasion.  However, I must admit I am one of the many who are attracted to confident, smart and intelligent men, so it is not that surprising that I have also dated an 'alpha male' once or twice in my lifetime.

Yet, when we hear the term "alpha male," we might imagine an example of a muscular, confident, and dominating fellow. What is it about these features that make alpha males so alluring? Is it just the physical attraction, or is there some more complex narrative at play? In this paper, I will attempt to explain the science behind alpha male attraction and why they remain so attractive to many.

What is alpha male dominance or alpha male?


First, let's define alpha male dominance in dating. This term, believe it or not originates from animal behaviour research and refers to the dominant male in a social group. In humans, an alpha male is often seen as a leader or top-performer in various domains, including business, sports, or social interactions. 

When it comes to the qualities of an alpha male, they are often described by a range of traits, including confidence, assertiveness, competitiveness, and physical attractiveness.

Why are we so attracted to these guys?


Ah, well, if evolutionary psychologists really speak the same language, believe me, then it is the role of natural selection that has the answer to this question. In ancestral times, alpha males were first in status and resources and acce