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Two people who were introduced by a Reddi matchmaker

How It Works

Reddi is a private members dating app and curated singles community for people who want to date with intention.

We combine a private online database with optional human-led matchmaking and curated introductions. Learn more about what Reddi is and how the platform is structured.

 

Technology supports the process. People lead it.

Members socialising at private Reddi experience

The Reddi Process

A simple breakdown of how membership, matching, and introductions work.

1. Apply & Join

Prospective members download the Reddi app and submit an application.

All applications are reviewed by the membership team.​

 

Reddi is application-based and curated. Acceptance is selective to maintain a high-quality community.

Some members may also join via direct invitation or referral via a 'Golden Ticket'.​ 

 

If accepted, members are invited to activate a paid membership to access the Reddi app and private database.

5. Community Visibility & Open Network

Community members may be visible to Reddi matchmakers and selected partner matchmaking networks for potential consideration.

This means:

 

Some members may be considered for curated introductions even if they are not paying matchmaking clients.

 

Visibility does not guarantee introductions.

 

This layer exists to expand opportunity without turning the platform into a mass-market system.

2. Your Profile & Preferences

Once accepted, members complete:

  • Profile information

  • Preferences and non-negotiables

  • Values and lifestyle indicators

  • Attachment style quiz

 

Attachment styles are used privately to support emotionally aligned matching. They are never displayed publicly.

 

Profiles are designed to support meaningful introductions rather than performative self-promotion.

6. Optional Paid Matchmaking

Matchmaking is an optional paid service, separate from standard membership. Learn more about Reddi Matchmaking.

A dedicated matchmaker works with you to:

  • Clarify relationship goals

  • Refine preferences

  • Identify compatible candidates

  • Arrange introductions

 

Matchmaking suitability is assessed on a case-by-case basis.

 

There is no fixed number of introductions guaranteed.

3. Attachment Style Compatibility

Reddi incorporates attachment-style compatibility alongside:

  • Values

  • Lifestyle alignment

  • Preferences and non-negotiables

  • Relationship intentions

 

This helps surface matches with stronger emotional alignment.

 

​Reddi does not use AI to automate matchmaking decisions.

 

​Human matchmakers and curated systems interpret this information to guide matching.

7. Events and Offline Experiences

Reddi hosts invite-only events and curated gatherings for members.

These experiences are designed to:

  • Support organic connection

  • Bring compatible people together

  • Extend relationships beyond the app

 

For ultra-high-end experiences, some members may also have access to L’Amour Privé, Reddi’s private dining and matchmaking arm.

4. Private Members Database

All members belong to Reddi’s private online database.​ Inside the app, members may:

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  • View a limited number of potential matches

  • Express interest in profiles

  • Match independently with other members

 

​Reddi does not offer endless swiping. The platform limits volume intentionally to support considered decisions, reduce overwhelm, and encourage real-world connection.

Matching is curated rather than automated.

8. Pricing & Access

Membership provides access to the app and private database.

Matchmaking is priced separately.

Details are shared following an initial enquiry.

For common questions about membership, see our FAQs.

Apply to join Reddi or contact us about matchmaking

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