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The Three Attachment Styles

Take our free quiz and find out your Attachment style

Your attachment style forms early in life, based on how safe, seen, and loved you felt as a child. It directly influences how you bond in adult relationships—how you show up, what you need, and how you respond to closeness.

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On Reddi, we use attachment style compatibility to connect you with emotionally aligned matches. Take our quick quiz to discover whether you're secure, anxious, or avoidant. Once you know your style, you can update it on your Reddi profile—so we can quietly filter for compatibility, no labels or judgement.

Find out your style and start dating more intelligently...

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The Three Attachment Styles

Secure

You are naturally warm and loving in relationships.  You tend to be the ‘rock’ within a relationship. Generally self-aware and emotionally available, you are confident in your relationship abilities and are well grounded  – you communicate your needs and feelings well.  

Anxious

You love to be close in your romantic relationships, and have capacity for great intimacy.  Relationships tend to consume a lot of your emotional energy, with you often becoming preoccupied with a partner or prospective partner, due to your fear of being abandoned or rejected. 

Avoidant

You will often want a relationship to work, but are unconsciously very fearful of being close.  You may be prone to low self-esteem and lack of trust, therefore giving your partner less kudos or respect than they deserve. Others may describe you as being unpredictable or dramatic. 

Learn About Attachment Styles

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