Can You Fall in Love Twice? Yes. (And 5 Reasons Why It's Better the Second Time Around)
Previous heartbreak is one of the main reasons why people shy away from looking for love the second time around. But the chances are that the best is yet to come.
There's nothing harder than dealing with heartbreak, and it can take time to find yourself in a position where you feel ready to get back into dating.
More than anything, there can be a true reluctance to put yourself back into that place where you might risk getting hurt again - and closing your heart and mind off to the possibility of finding love is often easier than taking that brave step. This is especially true of men, who are less likely to want to get back into dating, through fear of rejection or failure, and repeating past experiences.
Philophobia, 'The fear of falling in love' is a very real and relatable condition, often triggered by traumatic past experiences. Infidelity, betrayal, or heartbreak can cause you to stay away from romantic relationships as a form of 'self-defence'.
But did you know that love can actually be more rewarding and enriching the second time around (and beyond)? There are many ways that falling in love again feels different - and potentially better - than the first.
Here are five reasons why:
1. You've learned some valuable lessons
Falling in love for the first time is exhilarating - but the rush is often short-lived. Whether you remember your first love fondly or with some regrets, chances are you learned a few lessons from the person who initially